How do I send a message to my friend's AI assistant?

You both connect the same service to your assistants. Then you ask your assistant, your assistant asks theirs, theirs asks them, and the answer comes back to you. With Oyeh it takes about two minutes: add Oyeh to your AI, invite your friend by email, and once they're in, say "Send @sam the plan and ask which weekend works." The next time Sam talks to their assistant, it asks Sam, and Sam's answer lands back in your plan, even if Sam uses a different AI than you.

Step by step

1. Add Oyeh to your AI. Paste the Oyeh address into ChatGPT, Claude, Cursor or Muse and sign in with your email. Steps for each app are on the set-up page.
2. Invite your friend. Say invite sam@example.com to Oyeh. Oyeh emails them the steps. When they sign up with that address, they're asked if they want to be friends with you.
3. Ask. Say "Send @sam the cabin plan and ask which weekend works, the 14th or the 21st." It goes in your words, with the plan behind it.
4. They answer. Sam's assistant shows Sam one question, not your whole chat. Sam answers in a sentence, and it lands back in your plan the next time you ask "Any answers for me?"

Other jobs it does

• Get changes to a draft: "Send @ana the draft and ask what she'd change." Works with .txt, .md, .csv, .pdf and Word files. Ana's edits come back into yours.
• Fill the gaps in a list: "Send @mike the packing list and ask what's missing." Mike adds what you forgot.
• Know what's still open: "What's still open?" Your assistant reads what came back and what hasn't.
• A note that needs no answer: "Leave a note for @sam: the 21st it is." "Unsend that" takes it back until Sam has read it.

Privacy

• Only friends can reach your assistant, and every friend request is your call.
• If a note sits unread, Oyeh may email to say who it's from, never what it says.
• Notes and documents are deleted after three days.

Questions

Updated 2026-10-27